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Post by EnglishPunk on Nov 26, 2004 2:05:18 GMT -5
Right ive got a question,that you lovely people might be able to help me with? What do you do to calm down,when your head goes, or you get annoyed or mad,or both? (getting drunk or stoned isnt an option i have anymore) Has you probably gathered,my head went a few hours ago,so what do i do to chill out? I piss off to illegal reggae clubs,tune in to the heavy dub thats playing,get a coke,and seek out some real old rasta friends i know,guys that i know you can be real with,none of this male macho bollocks either............ and start to get real with whats happening and how im feeling? Thats how i deal with shit,probably not the correct way to deal with things,(i dont know?) Thats why im asking you lovely people now...... (By the way its 8.00AM here now,and im chilled out now. just making breakfast,a real english fry up)  |
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Post by strESSS on Nov 26, 2004 7:43:38 GMT -5
get sectioned
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Post by mystikslavedrummer on Nov 26, 2004 10:09:58 GMT -5
Im a terrible person to ask those type of questions.But,FOR ME and I say it like that cuz it works for me and my life.Anyway....I look at the whole issue and say to myself..."is it REALLY worth all my time and effort?" to be annoyed or pissed at this or whatever it is.Cuz chances are it isnt...so why bother.We each have our own lives and for me,if it doesnt affect myself or my loved ones closest to me...the hell with it.Life is too short to be carrying around meaningless B.S luggage.In 2 days there will be something else to be pissed or annoyed at and then in 2 days after that....something else.And now you got a clusterf.u.c.k and youre not sure what to do.Cuz the first issue never got let go and these other 2 issues are on top of that.And now a bad moment in a day has turned out into a bad week.And life doesnt care one bit on how much s.h.i.t it deals to one person.The hits just keep on coming.So make LOVE,not war.Im stepping off of my soapbox now.PEACE
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Post by EnglishPunk on Nov 26, 2004 10:24:24 GMT -5
Im a terrible person to ask those type of questions.But,FOR ME and I say it like that cuz it works for me and my life.Anyway....I look at the whole issue and say to myself..."is it REALLY worth all my time and effort?" to be annoyed or pissed at this or whatever it is.Cuz chances are it isnt...so why bother.We each have our own lives and for me,if it doesnt affect myself or my loved ones closest to me...the hell with it.Life is too short to be carrying around meaningless B.S luggage.In 2 days there will be something else to be pissed or annoyed at and then in 2 days after that....something else.And now you got a clusterf.u.c.k and youre not sure what to do.Cuz the first issue never got let go and these other 2 issues are on top of that.And now a bad moment in a day has turned out into a bad week.And life doesnt care one bit on how much s.h.i.t it deals to one person.The hits just keep on coming.So make LOVE,not war.Im stepping off of my soapbox now.PEACE Hey, Thanks for that mystikslavedrummer that helps a lot,so thankyou for explaining you to me... it gives me something else to think about and consider |
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Post by mystikslavedrummer on Nov 26, 2004 11:52:07 GMT -5
well I dont know if it will help you or not.Sometimes it seems easier said than done.Its just Ive had enough s.h.i.t. dealt to me in life that I have become a product of learning to deal with it.And so far,it works for me.
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Post by EnglishPunk on Nov 26, 2004 11:54:42 GMT -5
well I dont know if it will help you or not.Sometimes it seems easier said than done.Its just Ive had enough s.h.i.t. dealt to me in life that I have become a product of learning to deal with it.And so far,it works for me. I hear you,  shit follows me 24/7..i must have been a bad bastard when i was younger  |
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Post by mystikslavedrummer on Nov 26, 2004 13:46:02 GMT -5
we all were when we were "younger." And I used to be the one to let s.h.i.t mount up everyday until I looked into the mirror and decided I didnt like what I saw...literally.So I dyed my hair blonde.Im just jokin...I mean I did dye my hair but not for this story.OK....bad joke.Anyway,I developed a couple of bleeding ulcers and right then and there I made a pack with myself that I would NEVER let the stupid s.h.i.t. in life bother me EVER again....cuz it just makes em worse when youre pissed and annoyed.You know the stupid little things that you CAN'T change like work issues beyond your control that no matter how many ways you can come up with that is better...it doesnt matter cuz you're not boss.Or somebody merging into 70 m.p.h traffic only going 40.Well...I cant admit I let that roll off my chest cuz there is a part of me that wants to ram my p.o.s winter beater right up the back end of their car.But anyway...I think you get the point.
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Post by mystikqueen on Nov 26, 2004 15:07:58 GMT -5
I play my music or meditate to try to chill. Mostly playing and writing calms me. It is my means to be heard and to vent. With out the two I become self destructive easily. So I guess my answer is to find something positive to focus on.
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Post by gladASS on Nov 26, 2004 16:44:33 GMT -5
I like to kick the shit out of a heavy bag, the punch it for an hour or so...then you are so tired, you don't have the energy to be mad anymore. |
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Post by EnglishPunk on Nov 26, 2004 16:52:12 GMT -5
we all were when we were "younger." And I used to be the one to let s.h.i.t mount up everyday until I looked into the mirror and decided I didnt like what I saw...literally.So I dyed my hair blonde.Im just jokin...I mean I did dye my hair but not for this story.OK....bad joke.Anyway,I developed a couple of bleeding ulcers and right then and there I made a pack with myself that I would NEVER let the stupid s.h.i.t. in life bother me EVER again....cuz it just makes em worse when youre pissed and annoyed.You know the stupid little things that you CAN'T change like work issues beyond your control that no matter how many ways you can come up with that is better...it doesnt matter cuz you're not boss.Or somebody merging into 70 m.p.h traffic only going 40.Well...I cant admit I let that roll off my chest cuz there is a part of me that wants to ram my p.o.s winter beater right up the back end of their car.But anyway...I think you get the point. Thanks again mate, I really appreciate you spending time on my F.U.C.K.E.D up head........ my main cause of my head going,is usually confusion at myself........ ill explain..i ran away from a disfunctional family aged 11 and lived on the streets of london for a few years in the late 70's..... so therefore i missed all my education,and one of the main things that sparks me off,is the inability to read or write to a satisfactory level.... i know that may sound petty,but its a big issue to me,even now writing this,im having to use a dictionary.. |
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Post by EnglishPunk on Nov 26, 2004 17:00:04 GMT -5
I play my music or meditate to try to chill. Mostly playing and writing calms me. It is my means to be heard and to vent. With out the two I become self destructive easily. So I guess my answer is to find something positive to focus on. Thankyou as well mystik... i do listen a lot to music and i must admit it does mellow me.as long as i play the right stuff... i also meditate for about 30 mins every night... that was a part of my process of beating addiction,and i still do it every day, years on now |
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Post by ColleenCaffeine on Nov 26, 2004 17:06:09 GMT -5
Heres my advice....join a band...it's the best therapy in the world..
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Post by EnglishPunk on Nov 26, 2004 17:06:43 GMT -5
I like to kick the shit out of a heavy bag, the punch it for an hour or so...then you are so tired, you don't have the energy to be mad anymore. Hey, glad, how did i guess you would come up with something like that? my favourite trick is headbutting the wall or punching holes in things,and your right it does work,but im trying to find a less expensive release ;D |
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Post by mystikqueen on Nov 26, 2004 21:39:54 GMT -5
Heres my advice....join a band...it's the best therapy in the world.. Or the biggest reason for therapy. lol |
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Post by gladASS on Nov 26, 2004 22:21:05 GMT -5
Hey, glad, how did i guess you would come up with something like that? my favourite trick is headbutting the wall or punching holes in things,and your right it does work,but im trying to find a less expensive release ;D Dave, do you know me that well, already? |
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Post by EnglishPunk on Nov 27, 2004 4:55:40 GMT -5
Dave, do you know me that well, already? Great minds,think alike Im just crazy,how about you? |
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Post by gladASS on Nov 27, 2004 7:23:39 GMT -5
I do believe I am too......
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Post by EnglishPunk on Nov 27, 2004 7:27:39 GMT -5
I do believe I am too......  |
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Post by strESSS on Nov 27, 2004 7:45:26 GMT -5
Good..hahahahaha...SUFFER...hahaha |
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